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CNLP 115: Sean Seay on Winning in Leadership While Failing at Home and How He Got Healthy

Sean Seay founded what by all means is a very successful church, reaching thousands. But while things were going well at work, they really fell apart at home. Sean takes us through an incredibly candid conversation about what he needed to deal with as a person, leader, husband, father and Christ-follower, and how he got healthy.

Welcome to Episode 115 of the podcast.

Sean Seay

 

Guest Links: Sean Seay

 Sean Seay on Twitter

Athen’s Church

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Links Mentioned

 Sean Seay on Pursuing Emotional Health in Ministry on The unSeminary Podcast

TrainedUp Leadership

TrainedUp’s Free eBook: Recruit and Deploy More Volunteers

ReThink Leadership

Athen’s Church

CNLP 110: Jeff Brodie, Carey Nieuwhof and Jeff Henderson on Navigating a Successful Transition: Stepping Out of And Into the Lead Pastor’s Chair

Brené Brown

CNLP 002: How Perry Noble Hit Bottom While Pastoring One of America’s Largest Churches & How He Battled Back

CNLP 005: When Leadership Ruins Your Family: How to Live and Lead Differently—An Interview with Craig Jutila

3 Insights from This Episode

1. Few people understand the full weight of leading a church. Including you before you signed up to do it. People tend to think that the way to build a thriving church is by being a good communicator and playing some trendy videos during service. However being a great communicator isn’t enough to grow a church—you need to be an even better leader. You have to pray, be in the community, build relationships, build a team, raise money and cast a compelling vision. Those are the things that make leading a church tough. And those are the components we forget about the most.

2. The people that love you the most can often get the worst from you. The people you work with won’t put up with you being a jerk, but usually your family will (for a while, at least). When the daily grind of work frustrations build up. . . it’s usually your family who sees the explosion. It’s important to remember that if you’re winning at work but losing at home, you’re losing.

3. If you allow it, God will use your brokenness for sanctification. If you’re in a place of brokenness, you need to know one thing: It’s okay to be there. God will still do something great. He has loved you your entire life. If you allow yourself to walk into His love and into His grace, the season of restoration will come.

Quotes from Sean and Carey

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Next Episode: Dave Adamson

He’s called the #1 follow in the Christian world on Instagram. @AussieDave, Dave Adamson, is my guest as he talks about how his Instagram account grew from 600 to ov 22K followers as he created a daily devotional. Dave shares his philosphy, strategy and apporach in a way that can help you develop and grow your own platform.

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2 Comments

  1. Jay on November 27, 2016 at 9:39 pm

    This is possibly the most raw and insightful episode ever, Carey. So many of us are in a cage match trying to give our best to our family while leading and serving God’s people in the local church. While Sean’s story is absolutely gut-wrenching, Jesus’ work in his restoration drips with grace. As a lay leader (current elder and volunteer leader and former worship leader) with a full-time job in the marketplace, I’ve never really found consistent success juggling the commitment between family/marriage, work, and serving at church. More stories like these are a huge help.

    • Carey Nieuwhof on November 29, 2016 at 11:37 am

      Jay…couldn’t agree more. So glad you found it helpful!

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