5 Unfair Criticisms of Large Churches It’s Time To Drop

When you think of large churches and mega-churches, what comes to mind?

If there’s one thing I learned from writing about the church, it’s that some people hate megachurches. With a passion.

I try not to engage the trolls and the haters in the comments on my blog (engaging them just gives them what they want). But I’ve also noticed that even among normally more balanced and nuanced church leaders, it’s easy to take swipes at megachurches.

Sometimes I wonder how much of that is born out of envy, a sense of inferiority or simple misunderstanding, but after years of hearing people complain about large churches and megachurches, it might be good to re-visit the subject more intentionally.

A while back, someone left this comment on about some large church pastors who burned out:

Wish these guys would get wise and start obeying Scripture and follow the New Testament model of interdependent churches under presbytery rule with representatives. Of course these preachers get burned out. They’ve made themselves the lynchpins of megachurches. They should get burned out. It’s a bad model of church government on many fronts, and it’s actually from the mercy of God that these men burn out. Churches are meant to be small, tightly knit communities, not splashy corporations. You build a monster, you get devoured. Or you become a monster. Burnout of megachurch pastors probably saves souls.

Burnout of megachurch pastors saves souls? I wish I was making this up. But I’m not. Somebody actually wrote this.

Sigh.

Are megachurches perfect? No. But no church is perfect, including small and mid-sized churches.

Even on a simple logical level, saying all megachurches are bad is like saying all small or mid-sized churches are bad. It’s just simplistic and illogical thinking. And for the record, I’m a fan of small churches—of any sized church—that wants to reach its community.

There’s nothing wrong with small church. There is something wrong with dead church.

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And occasionally, when small churches start to reach new people, they become mid-sized churches. And then, before you know it, some of them become larger churches. Then what?

If you’re against church growth, you’re against the basic mission of the church: to reach people.

So what happens when a church starts to grow? Do you shut the growth down? Do you get bad at what you do so you stop reaching people? Or do you keep your churches smaller on purpose and multiply (by the way, that’s now called multi-site)?

The logical issues alone with slamming large churches are riddled with problems.

But it’s even deeper than that.

So here are 5 criticisms of large churches it’s finally time to drop.

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1. It’s a one-man (or one-woman) show

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard people say that a large church is a one-person show.

That’s because—quite naturally—most of us think of the founder or senior leader when we think of a large church (there are some large churches where that isn’t the case, but they’re the exception).

As a rule, most large churches hardly behave like a one-man or one-woman show. There are actually teams of highly skilled leaders around the point leader. Anyone who says a large organization is a one-man show doesn’t understand what’s required to lead a large, complex, let alone multi-site organization. You simply HAVE to have dozens to hundreds of capable staff and thousands of capable volunteers.

In reality, far more small churches are one-man or one-woman shows than large churches.

It’s far more likely that a small church or a mid-sized church (say 400-600) is a one-person show because it IS possible for the leader to do pretty much everything. That breaks down entirely once your church is larger than a thousand in attendance. In fact, your church will never sustainably grow to 1000 people if it’s a one-person show run entirely by the leader.

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While the reasons for Mars Hill’s collapse five years ago are complex (I talk about them in Episode 79 of my Leadership Podcast with Mars Hill insider Justin Dean), you can argue that it wasn’t sustainably built because it imploded when Mark Driscoll left.

But Newspring and Cross Point Churches have done very well under new leadership since their founding pastors left. For more on the encouraging story at Cross Point, you can listen to my interview with Kevin Queen and another with Cross Point’s senior leadership team members Drew Powell and Matt Warren.

And many other very large churches have gone through changes in leadership successfully. Southeast Christian grew significantly after its founder left and is now on the third generation of succession.  Christ Fellowship in Florida is thriving after its founder left. Gene Appel handed over a very large Central Christian Church in Las Vegas to Jud Wilhite, who has led it to unprecedented growth and expansion over 15 years.

People who say large churches are one-man shows don’t understand large churches. Period.

2. The people who attend are blind sheep

First of all, if you think the people who attend large churches are all blind sheep, why don’t you ask them if that’s the case? After all, it’s a pretty insulting accusation.

If you visit most megachurches, you won’t find blind sheep. You will find leaders. Actually, most often, you’ll find capable leaders—independent men and women who appreciate the level of purpose, thoughtfulness and mission behind many of today’s larger churches.

I’m not saying leaders don’t also go to small or mid-sized churches, but they also (perhaps predominantly) become engaged in large churches. Why?

Well, because great leaders tend to gravitate toward churches and organizations that are well led.

They want to be well-led in church because that’s what they’re used to in the marketplace and in life. Great leaders attract great leaders.

They’re used to leaders and teams of leaders who know how to make critical decisions, to advance a collective cause and who can lead and manage complex organizations.

By contrast, capable leaders avoid poorly-led organizations and churches.

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3. Big churches don’t produce real disciples

Of all the criticism, this one stings me the most personally, mainly, because it’s just not true. And while I haven’t led a gigantic personally, I’m founding pastor of a large church (1500) and this criticism always chased our ministry.

Start with the basics. What is a disciple?

Someone who has decided to trust Jesus as their Saviour. But how do you know whether they’re following Jesus?

Jesus actually gave us a very practical test that helps us tell. He simply said: “By their fruit you’ll recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thorn bushes, or figs from thistles?”

In other words, look at someone’s life for the evidence.

Knowledge, as the Apostle Paul pointed out, is not spiritual maturity. Knowledge makes you arrogant. And arrogance isn’t a mark of Christian maturity.

If you go to a megachurch, you will discover thousands of people whose lives look more like Jesus a few years down the road than they ever did before. You’ll discover people who have placed their faith in Jesus and who are being transformed by the love of God (and you’ll discover that in small and mid-sized churches too).

You know who isn’t being transformed by love? The critics.

Think about that for a while. And maybe worry about that as well.

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4. People don’t like attending large churches

This is a fun argument to spin because it sounds like what Yogi Berra said about a certain New York restaurant: “Nobody goes there anymore. It’s too crowded.”

While it may be true that there is a cultural trend toward smaller, the truth is people in continue to flock to megachurches.  Studies continue to show that megachurches keep getting bigger and there are more of them every year. And even a more recent study shows churches over 250 in attendance are more likely to be growing and seeing people become Christians.

Large churches are doing a better and better job of making things smaller too. The launch of new, smaller campuses and smaller worship spaces are models many megachurches are adopting.

The paradox is that large churches keep getting larger and smaller at the same time. Which is one of the reasons they keep growing larger.

The paradox is that large churches keep getting larger and smaller at the same time. Which is one of the reasons they keep growing larger. Click To Tweet

5. Megachurches are unbiblical

This is a common criticism of megachurches. People don’t like the lights, the structure or “CEO” style leadership.

I’m just not sure the argument stands up, though.

First, the critics of megachurches are rarely practicing what might be called ‘biblical’ forms of church. My guess is most don’t get up at 5 a.m. each day before work, get together with other Christians to pray and promise each other that they won’t cheat on their wives, that they’ll care for the poor and stay faithful to Jesus.

My guess is they’re not reciting ancient canticles, gathering daily in each other’s homes and radically pooling their possessions to care for the poor and help other fledgling churches fuel the rapidly expanding Jesus-movement. If they are, my hat’s off to them. This is probably a fair representation of the form of first-century Christian worship.

The reality, of course, is that the church has always changed, adapted and responded to changing times.

Organ music, now seen as traditional, obscure or even quaint, was the ‘radical’ new worship of the nineteen century.

It’s so easy to confuse the method with the mission and preferences with principles. The methods change. The mission doesn’t.

In fact, if you want to jeopardize the mission, never change your method. You’ll become irrelevant in a generation. Just Nest and Ring have changed home security, Lyft and Uber have disrupted taxis, Airbnb has changed the hotel industry and the way we vacation, it’s not that people gave up on home security, transportation or accommodation, it’s just that how we now do that has changed.

Ditto with the church. There may be a day where large churches are no longer an effective way to share Christ with others. If that’s the case, they’ll fade. In the meantime, though, if they continue to lead people into a growing relationship with Jesus, why stop them?

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Thoughts?

Any other unfair criticisms of large churches?

Play nice in the comments, please. We really are going to be spending eternity together, and it would be good to start getting along now.

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12 Comments

  1. THIAM MÉKÀ de GOGUENHEIM on July 6, 2019 at 8:14 am

    Dear Carey, I feel blessed reading this post of yours and thanks so much
    Jesus Christ sent us on mission: go and make all nations my disciples
    Personally I am working in building a choir of 600 female voices here in my community
    It’s a call, it’s a vision, so help me God
    Danielle

  2. Raj on July 2, 2019 at 9:14 pm

    “There may be a day where large churches are no longer an effective way to share Christ with others.” Carey, if in 10-50 years this is true, what do you think would replace it? Digital experiences? Home groups?

  3. Carol Harris on July 2, 2019 at 11:46 am

    Dear Carey, We are asked to not expect non-Christians to behave or understand our motivations and convictions as Christians. Far more challenging is standing firm in Him when other Christians don’t understand those same motivations or convictions–or criticize us.

    Perhaps if we approach it from a listening and empathetic stance, firmly rooted in Christ, rather than a defensive one? I have to believe that it’s a test to see how much love and grace we can sustain when we are under fire by, of all things, other Christians.

    I do not know the church in Canada—yet the church is till the church, regardless of location. In the U.S., the dark side is waging a huge initiative, convincing Christians that the church exists to meet their individual needs. We need to consciously decide not to participate in these efforts!
    We can expect that, when the human element in a church overshadows the divine, deep hurt and alienation follows…and some reluctantly decide to leave. In their pain, they find the easiest scapegoat—the church—and point to the most obvious: too big, too small, too diverse…not diverse enough. To make matters worse, many pastors show empathy and solidarity (perhaps in an effort to grow their own flock) by reinforcing this misdirected justification for change rather than point to the comfort and strength Christ offers in their choice of a new church home.

    My point? If we stay whole-heartedly focused on Christ, we have no time to address these misguided and misdirected criticisms. This is His battle. Those who criticize us need our prayer and, most of all, God needs our attention to his plans in those arenas where he has truly anointed us.

  4. John Pearrell on July 1, 2019 at 3:14 pm

    People who are against large churches obviously have never read the book of Acts. After the first meeting the church grew to 3,000. After a subsequent meeting they stopped counting everyone and just started counting men—at 5,000 strong. Most scholars hold the church in Jerusalem numbered 25-30,000. Which is why they got the attention of the Jewish leaders. The misconception of the “small house church” comment comes when they leave the large meeting in the Temple Courts and continue what started there “in their homes.” Sounds more like large church/small group structure then small church structure.

    Oh, and while there, Jesus didn’t travel around with just 12 guys in tow either. Every place He went we see large crowds gathering, so if we are going to complain, I guess we have to start with the Founder of the movement. Sigh

  5. Jacob Pannell on July 1, 2019 at 1:32 pm

    Thanks for your thoughts on this. I realized a couple of my own biases as I was reading. I always appreciate being challenged, and I am constantly worried about confirmation bias.

  6. Olutayo on July 1, 2019 at 1:29 pm

    what a wonderful post. I totally agree with you Sir. I believe megachurch is born out of total commitment and obedience to the great Commission, Go ye. A going small Church will surely become a megachurch some day. The is an organism so it must grow. The ministry of five fold spiritual gifts is more pronounced in the megachurch. Thanks.

  7. Chris C on July 1, 2019 at 10:13 am

    The first mega church sprang into existence when 3000 were added in one day. Kinda hard to say that mega churches are ‘un-biblical’…..

  8. Dennis on July 1, 2019 at 9:47 am

    Dear Carey,
    Good post. It stung a bit. As one who recently moved from a large church to a smaller one, I confess I have made some negative comments contrasted the small church existence against being in a larger church – for which I need to repent.
    My biggest issue is your comment: “If you’re against church growth, you’re against the basic mission of the church: to reach people.” This is where in my mind the shades of gray come in.
    The mega-church came out of the church growth movement of the ‘90’s which enabled the whole idea of the consumer Christian. I think it was you that said, “People think they are upgrading to first class when they go to a larger church.” That comment drips of Christian consumerism. Packing out a church is not the objective – it is making heart compelled disciples.
    If John 6:65 is true that God grants repentance, there is a cost both in not striving for salvation for all who are called (dead church) and in compromising to be bigger that the scope of the calling.
    That is not to say all large churches are bad and small is good, it is just that if I wanted to just come to church, sit on my hands, be verbally assured and wait for heaven, I would be in a large church. OK – that is the sin nature in all of us and these people exist in all churches and we all have a bit of it in us.
    I agree – We need to be willing to change methods and we need to stop comparing and get on with the family business of making heart motivated disciples.

  9. Steve S. on July 1, 2019 at 8:49 am

    As a pastor of a smaller church, I’ve heard similar critiques of large churches–many of them are unfounded. I think the struggle pastors and churches have with mega-churches is that it’s easy for congregants to leave small churches for the “bigger and better” mentality. Smaller churches are unable to compete and hurt moreso because they lack the same resources. So yes, I dont doubt there is some kind of envy with pastors. For me, I believe a church will grow if the church is prepared and the Lord is willing. If a mega-church is growing, I assume–perhaps somewhat naively–they are doing at least some things well.

    I agree with what you’ve said in this post; mega-churches are not inherently good or bad. However, this post appears to be a rant. You appear to play defensive throughout and as if you have a chip on your shoulder. As the old saying goes, and I’m sure you know well, “not every hill is worth dying on.” I’m not sure the subject was worth addressing.

    • Raj on July 2, 2019 at 9:19 pm

      I feel Carey definitely feels the sting with the criticism, which he believes is unfounded. I think subconsciously pastors could be self sabotaging their churches from growing or being larger themselves if they believe the above points.

      “it’s easy for congregants to leave” – that’s definitely painful, I wonder if it also works the other way for you? Where people that don’t feel connected at a larger church go to a smaller church?

  10. Tom Bozikis on July 1, 2019 at 6:31 am

    Dear Carey,

    Thanks for this post. I’ve attended both small and mega church services, and what I’ve observed is whether those churches are “Christ-led.” I’ve found in the mega churches withwich I’ve been acquainted, there is a diverse leadership structure in place with one purpose, and that is to make disciples. And the emphasis isn’t on growing by numbers, although as people come to the Lord, the church grows.

    I wonder when discussing a topic like this, is why a church isn’t growing. Is it because of poor leadership, or is it that the Lord isn’t leading it? It is my belief that a church that isn’t committed to the Lord and the major tenants of scripture won’t be blessed, and most likely, won’t survive. I think your example of Jesus’ example of getting good fruit from a bad tree can be expanded to unbiblical church organizations as well. Of course, this is a topic for a different kind of post.Tom Bozikis

  11. Rogba Arimoro on July 1, 2019 at 4:10 am

    Dear Carey, thank you for the interesting writeup. It allowed me get a glimpse into another side of the conversation.
    I don’t really agree with the reasons for some of your points but i totally disagree, in particular, with your last one. It’s true that most critics aren’t practicing the kind of Christianity that obtained in the Early Church but that doesn’t in anyway nullify the importance of that structure for today or mean that the church should not work in that way.
    I agree that times change and people adapt so as to remain relevant but adaption does not necessarily mean throwing the baby out with the bath water.
    Church was designed to be led by a plurality of elders and not one man. This was, asides other reasons, to ensure a balance of power and to ensure accountability. Having a one man led church organisation is dangerous and has led to a lot of disastrous consequences for the body of Christ over time. A church is about Christ and nobody else, the danger of the brethren elevating their pastor above Christ is real and has hurt, and continues to hurt, countless people (both pastors and brethren) till date. It is an old testament model and should not be practiced in an era where Christ has died for all and everyone has access to God.
    Do people need guidance and leadership? YES! But they need it from a group of people who can support each other and hold each other to account; not from a King-like figure who wields absolute authority over everyone else. It is totally unbiblical.

    Thank you

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