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5 Good Reasons A Church Should Close

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It’s no secret that thousands of churches close every year.

Every time I hear of a church that’s closing, my heart sinks. Despite the voices of all of the critics, I really do believe the local church is a beacon of light in a world that’s increasingly dark.

In light of the fact that I have a strong bias toward seeing churches grow and flourish, are there ever reasons a church should close?

Sadly, I think there are.

I began ministry in three little churches that were fairly close to death. One of them maybe had a year left.

By God’s grace, we saw a tremendous turnaround and began to reach new families and see people come to faith.

What was needed in many ways was a heart transplant. It’s not that people didn’t have good hearts, it’s that the church had lost its heart. It no longer had a burning sense of mission.

Once we rediscovered the church’s mission, things began to change dramatically.

That’s my wish for every church. But sadly, it doesn’t happen nearly enough.

So how do you know the end is near? When should a church close?

Here are 5 good reasons a church should throw in the towel and close its doors if it doesn’t want to change.

1. The Real Mission Is Lost

Once you begin to lose momentum as a church, it’s so easy to go into survival mode.

And part of that is understandable. You’re trying to keep the doors open, not lay off staff and preserve the progress you’ve made so far. But it’s also easy to lose focus on the mission in that process.

And when you do, it gets bad quickly. You start to see every new person as someone who can give and serve, rather than as someone to serve and introduce to Christ. You start to view every decision through a cost filter. You care far more about efficiency than effectiveness.

The conversation shifts from how much you can do in Christ to how little you can do and survive.

The real purpose of everything you do moves from advancing the Gospel to keeping an organization on life support.

When survival becomes a church’s real mission, you’ve lost the mission and the end is near.

2. The Church cares more about itself than the people it’s called to reach

It’s a sad day when a church cares more about itself than the people it’s called to reach.

So many churches are so consumed with the preferences of their members that they have no heart for their non-members. And yet the church is one of the few organizations on the planet that exists for the sake of its non-members.

When you visit some churches, you’d think Jesus said you should focus on the 99 found sheep and ignore the one that’s lost. That’s really how so many churches behave.

But think about it this way, if everyone in your town or city when to your church except one single person, you’re called to abandon everything until that one person is reached. I realize few people believe this, but I have a hard time understanding the story any other way.

Maybe it makes more sense from a family perspective.

If you have four kids and only three make it home for dinner, no decent parent says “Well, that’s 75%. Good enough.”

No, you forget dinner, call the police, send out a search party and no one sleeps until the missing child is found.

What if Christians behaved that way?

When a church only cares about its members, it’s a good sign it’s lost its soul, and it’s not a bad (or surprising) reason it should close.

If Christians didn’t rest until every person was reached, more people would be reached.

3. Its Members Hate the World

Many Christians struggle with the world. I get that.

Morals are shifting, culture is changing and we are quickly moving into a post-Christian world. It’s easy not to like what you see.

It’s led a lot of Christians in this generation, though, to behave as though they hate the world.

The history of the Gospel is that God’s not a fan of what he sees, not just in the world, but in our hearts.

So what does he do? He loves us.

One of the most quoted Bible verses of all time says that God so loved the world.  If God so loves the world, Christians really don’t have permission to hate it.

You can get frustrated with it. You don’t have to agree with everything. But you shouldn’t hate it.

To make things even more challenging for us personally, remember this: it’s really hard for someone to believe you love them if it’s clear you don’t like them.

When a church behaves like it hates the world, it should never be shocked that the world doesn’t flock to embrace it.

4. Preserving the Past Is More Attractive Than Embracing the Future

When things aren’t going well, it’s easy to think the past is more attractive than the future.

Visit a lot of churches and you’ll discover they’re looking backward, not forward.

When your fondness for what you used to do is greater than your passion for what you’re going to do, you’re in trouble.

Bottom line? When all of your excitement is about the past, you haven’t got much of a future.

5. The Money Isn’t Remotely Tied to the Mission

How churches handle money is often a subject of scrutiny. And for sure, churches are accountable before God and people about how we use donated dollars.

When a church is thriving, money is being poured into life-change. People who don’t know Christ are coming to know him. Kids are being nurtured in the love of Christ. The church reaches out into the community and makes a difference with tangible needs.

But in a church that’s lost its mission, money gets mistreated in at least two ways.

Where funds are low, everything becomes about keeping the lights on, staying open for X more months or years, and the drive becomes about preservation, not purpose.

But not every purposeless church is without money. Many dying churches are actually rich with cash.

Some have huge endowments, large bank accounts or sit on millions of dollars in real estate.

One of the great ironies of the early 21st century in Western Church is that churches with money and buildings often have no people, and churches with people often have no money and no buildings.

Wouldn’t it be amazing if churches with buildings but no people gave them to planters with people but no buildings?

It’s happening in a growing number of cases, but what if this became a universal trend?

Regardless, if you’ve stopped using money to further your real mission, it’s a sign that you should close.

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I have a bias toward keeping churches alive, and my dream is to see every church grow. If that dream was to come true, no church would close and every church would become effective in reaching the people God so deeply loves.

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What Do You See?

What do you see? What are some signs in your view that the end is near for a church?

9 Comments

  1. Tom on November 13, 2017 at 2:32 pm

    I am a single, never married man 60 years old. I feel like, in being a life-long singleton, going to church has become more of a burden than a blessing. It seems like I’m being looked down on because I’m by myself with no woman and kids with me.

    Number 2 is a strong point for me. It’s just amazing to me how I had attended some churches for a good while; and when I left, no one ever called. Just recently I had some fall-outs at a couple of churches. At one place (I had attended there for about four years) I went for counseling with the Pastor. I told him I feel lonely. He told me, “people avoid you because they sense that you don’t feel comfortable around other people”. I suppose he was right. After all, at that church, the people were very old and cliquey. They would not take the time to even just say “hello” to me while I’d be standing there all by myself where they served the refreshments.

    Another incident was at a church I attended for a couple of months. That church was next door to my place and very small. They had me register my phone # and address. Then one time I went to the Men’s Breakfast (at an unreasonably expensive place). One old man (who was a deacon and Sunday School teacher) was grilling me as to why I never got married. It seemed like the Pastor had to stick up for me. They had a Men’s Breakfast the following month at an IHOP. I went there and no one showed up. The next day I asked the Pastor what happened. He said that he had changed the place to have breakfast and forgot to call me. I thought that it was very lame. So I never went back there.

    So now, I’m still searching for that church that I will like. It’s bee a very hopeless search.

  2. John Finochio on October 25, 2017 at 9:59 am

    All excellent points Carey and more stagnant dying churches with assets could leverage their influence and accelerate their impact if their boards would look for opportunities to turn those assets over to new vibrant church plants or merge with successful churches in their communities!

  3. james on September 5, 2017 at 10:40 pm

    Let’s not forget about the liberal leftwing media which destroys christians on purpose as they refuse to agree with homosexual marriage, transgender bathrooms, sex anytime anywhere with anyone, etc

    • Greg on October 12, 2017 at 8:04 pm

      Certainly an inspired comment. WWJD?

  4. Grace Sweatman on September 2, 2017 at 8:03 am

    Thank you for this insight. The challenge for a newcomer “from away” is to have any impact on the survival direction of the rural church we attend. We have committed to be faithful. Set an example with our financial support and pray. We are also committed to being a blessing to the pastor who while very happy we have chosen to attend is a little intimidated by us.
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    My personal view, “where there is life there is hope.” I will hold onto that hope and pray for wisdom.

    • Carey Nieuwhof on September 9, 2017 at 9:20 am

      Love your heart on that Grace. I share it!

  5. Rick Rabe on September 2, 2017 at 7:08 am

    God provides just what is needed. I so believe this. Tomorrow I start my first posting at a church that has been in decline for a while. Your blog (as so many of them are) is an inspiration. It is always about focus and also about fear. So many of us fear the loss of ‘the church’ which really means the fear of change that may be the inevitable change that is required to further build disciples. I am encouraged and strengthened by your words. Thank you.

  6. Bill Finch on August 31, 2017 at 3:24 pm

    Carey, thank you for writing this blog. A year ago, Westbourne Baptist Church in Calgary, where I pastored, made the decision to close. But we wanted to replant. God so led in the process that Village Church Calgary will be planted where Westbourne met. Our transition team gifted the building to Village!

  7. Jay Jennings on August 31, 2017 at 8:45 am

    Carey, this may be the most powerful post to date. But then again, maybe it’s just because of my history (part of the leadership team of 3 church plants that all closed). You had a number of blockbuster statements but this one hit me in the forehead like a 2×4. “You start to see every new person as someone who can give and serve, rather than as someone to serve and introduce to Christ.” Ouch. It hurts because it’s true.

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