CCLP 019: Jeff Lockyer on Ministering to LGBTQ, Young Leadership, Women in Leadership and Reaching The People and the Poor in A City

Jeff Lockyer has been the Lead Pastor of what is now Southridge Church since he was in his early 20’s. He talks about what that journey was like, team leadership, ministering to LGBTQ in his city, and how his church has made reaching the poor part of their mission of reaching people.

Welcome to Episode 019 of the podcast, which you can access on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Links Mentioned

Canadian Church Leaders Conference

Compassion Canada

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The Church of Irresistible Influence by Robert Lewis

BRAVE WOMEN: Building Bridges to Transformation, a Compendium by Ellen Duffield

A Mission Partner

Fredy, Carey & Merly – Guatemala 2017

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3 Insights from This Episode

1. Healthy succession requires transferring authority and responsibility

Does your church have a succession plan in place? It’s always smart to be engaging and developing the next generation even if you’re decades away from replacing senior leadership. Start by evaluating your leadership pipeline and general processes. Do you have space on your team for excellent, younger leaders to thrive? It’s okay to get outside of your current system and design opportunities for the next generation to gain experience and responsibility in a creative way.

Make sure your succession plan includes transferring both authority and responsibility to the incoming generation. You can’t give away responsibility and expect to retain authority. Likewise, the recipient can’t hold authority without the role of responsibility. It just won’t work long-term without both.

Be looking for the emerging leaders around you who could take the next steps towards senior level leadership. Investing in them now immediately serves to grow those young leaders and in turn will better serve your church in the years to come.

2. Team Ministry needs the skill set of a Team Leader 

Team ministry has its plus sides. Biblically we know moving the Kingdom forward takes many gifts and working hands. It’s fun and rewarding when a collaboration of minds successfully pulls off great things most people couldn’t do alone.

But there are definitely some pitfalls. You can lead collectively up to a certain point, but nothing ever comes together perfectly. As soon as a disagreement arises, that team togetherness is broken. There is a difference between structure and function. You can function as a team, but you can’t structure as a collective because there’s no backbone when people disagree.

That’s where the team leader comes into play. The team leader has the skill set necessary to make those hard calls without dividing the team. The team leader isn’t there to move his or her own vision, but the fundamental beliefs of the church.

3. There’s a way to combine attractional and missional church philosophies

If your church suddenly disappeared, would anyone in the surrounding community notice? There’s a way for your church to be attractional and missional. The key is not being hyper-focused in either area. You can’t devote 100% of your time and resources into the needs of missions and ignore being prepared for weekend services; and vice-versa. Know the blueprint of your church and what you want to be known for by the people. Find ways to engage people in both areas of your church that will grow the hearts of all involved.

Here are the three ways Jeff’s team measures and cultivates discipleship within Southridge Church:

Attendance Rate  – How many people are coming to your weekend services?

Connection Rate – How many life groups does your church host and are they actively pursuing community?

Engagement Rate – How many people are volunteering to get out of their comfort zones and serve the needs of the community?

Quotes from This Episode

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CCLP 019: Jeff Lockyer on Ministering to LGBTQ, Young Leadership, Women in Leadership and Reaching The People and the Poor in A City


  1. Catherine on May 4, 2018 at 6:45 am

    Girls confidence peaks at age 9? You just lost me. What nonsense.

  2. Jeff Lockyer on May 4, 2018 at 6:33 am

    Yes Guy… It’s from Ellen Duffield’s PhD-level research on the subject. Here’s the website for the launch of her new book:

  3. Guy Corrigall on May 3, 2018 at 8:51 am

    Do you have the resources for the statement that girls confidence peaks at 9?

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