It’s a universal tension you feel and almost every leader experiences: the drive to get more done.
Maybe you feel the pressure because you’re starting or restarting something, and you know that if you only do more of the same, the end is near. So you push hard and drive for more. And before you know it, you’re out of hours to get it all done.
Or maybe whatever you lead is growing. You’re just trying to keep up and are drowning under the onslaught of requests and demands that keep coming your way. You just can’t keep up.
I’ve led in both scenarios.
The drive to get more done almost always comes with a cost: you and the ones you love.
The question I want to keep asking is: does it have to be that way, in my life and in your life?
I believe the answer is no.
While there’s no easy answer, there are better answers. You just need to know how to find them.
Over the last decade, I’ve gotten a lot more accomplished than I used to, but it’s a daily discipline.
Along the way, here are three false productivity goals I’ve had to abandon on my leadership journey.
See if you can relate. I hope all of it helps you.The drive to get more done almost always comes with a cost: you and the ones you love. Click To Tweet
1. Effectiveness, Not Efficiency
I remember when our churches started to grow, I was all about efficiency.
Efficiency, after all, would save the day.
If I could get something that used to take an hour down to 30 minutes, I could double my capacity. Enter technology, and efficiency can go on a rocket ride.
The problem is efficiency, though, is its limits. By nature, efficiency lives in the finite universe of time.
No matter how smart or capable you may be, every leader only gets 24 hours each day.
As a result, efficiency can only get you so far. By nature, it has diminishing returns.By nature, efficiency has diminishing returns. Click To Tweet
Think about it. If you had 16 tasks that take you an hour and, through efficiency, you cut each down to 30 minutes each, you already have a relatively full work day (8 hours). Your capacity to take on more is very limited.
I’m all for efficiency when it matters, but to go one step further, some activities are by nature not inherently efficient.
People aren’t efficient (bet you’ve noticed that). Neither is sermon preparation or writing. Neither is brainstorming or long-term planning. Parenting isn’t efficient. Neither is marriage or friendship.
Sometimes you need the gifts of space and time. You need uninterrupted, unhurried time to explore whatever you need to explore, relationally or otherwise.
In all matters where you can be efficient, do it. An accounting system that cuts the time in half is probably worth whatever it costs. Ditto with email, routine meetings and so much of what occupies daily life.
But as efficient as you may become, you only have so many hours in a day. And part of what you do will never be fully efficient.
So along the way, I stopped just thinking in terms of efficiency and started thinking in terms of effectiveness.
Stop asking yourself how to be more efficient. Start asking yourself how to be more effective.
Becoming more effective might mean you cut 17 efficient things out of your life. Sure, you may be efficient at a lot of things, but being efficient at things that don’t matter isn’t a win. It’s a loss.Being efficient at things that don't matter isn't a win. It's a loss. Click To Tweet
Becoming more effective might mean you cut out six meetings so you can have a full day to ponder and think about the future, or to work on your message, or to handle those difficult personnel problems that never go away.
It might mean you hire someone to do your finance or find a volunteer to do expenses so you can focus on the highest value activities that move your mission forward.
Don’t ask yourself how you can be more efficient. Ask yourself how you can be more effective.Don't ask yourself how you can be more efficient. Ask yourself how you can be more effective. Click To Tweet
2. Accomplishment, Not Activity
Most of us have had the terrible feeling of having hustled hard for 8-12 hours all day, but at the end of it we’re not exactly sure what we did.
Sure, we played Wac-A-Mole with our inbox (for every one we answered, two more showed up), we got pulled into meetings, had lots of conversations, answered texts, and barely had time to breathe.
But looking back on it, we’re not really sure what we accomplished.
Too much work today is defined by activity. Not nearly enough is defined by accomplishment.Too much work today is defined by activity. Not nearly enough is defined by accomplishment. Click To Tweet
Activity may give you a paycheck (it’s amazing to me how many companies and even churches still pay people for showing up).
But accomplishment is the only thing that both gives you a sense of purpose and meaning in life and move the overall mission forward.
It’s what will allow you to rest at the end of the day knowing you’ve made some kind of a difference and contribution.
If you want to feel a great sense of purpose, write down what you want to accomplish every day. Don’t just write down tasks, set goals related to the mission.
Then calendar your day to them.Activity may give you a paycheck. Accomplishment will give you a purpose. Click To Tweet
Great leaders focus on accomplishment, not activity.
3. Progress, Not Productivity
Productivity is another goal that’s trapped me over the years.
Again, it’s good to be productive in the same way it’s good to be efficient.
But you can have productive day after productive day and still miss the mission.
I’ve learned to ask whether I’ve made progress even more often than whether or not I was productive.
Progress forces you to ask bigger questions.
Progress makes you look at whether you advanced the mission. It makes you ask whether you’ve made people better, or whether you’ve just gotten something out of them for yet another day.
It focuses you on growing your skill set, on improving the team.
Progress makes you work on it, not just in it.
If you focus on progress enough, you won’t come to the end of a year and realize you just completed a year that looked exactly like the year before, which in turn looked surprisingly like the year before.
Progress is all about the future. Productivity is about the present.
Productive leaders make today better. Leaders focused on progress make tomorrow better.Productive leaders make today better. Leaders focused on progress make tomorrow better. Click To Tweet
So how do you get out of the traps you fall into as a leader?
What you likely need is a better system. So…some help.
The High Impact Leader course is an online, on-demand course designed to help you get time, energy and priorities working in your favour.
You can complete the three-hour course at your own pace. It’s the most comprehensive content I’ve ever created for leaders to help you reclaim HOURS every day so you can become more effective at work and more present at home. When your time, energy, and priorities are all working together for you, it’ll impact everything you do.
- You become a better leader, because you’re doing what you do best when you’re at your best
- You become a better spouse, because you’re focused at home
- You become a better parent, neighbor, and friend, because you actually have time off to relax and engage
These principles will free you to thrive in every area of your life.
Remember, if you change you, you change everything.If you change you, you change everything. Click To Tweet
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