CNLP Bonus 003: #AskCarey Part 2

Every leader has questions. And if you’ve got a question, chances are someone has the same question too.

Welcome to Part 2 of the Ask Carey bonus episode of the podcast where I take your questions and take my best shot at an answer.

Ask Carey

Questions Featured in this Episode

3:00 Is it always necessary to have one person as a vision carrier, or can a team function well without a designated leader?

5:56 How does a church break the 1,000 attendance barrier?

9:39 How do you leave your leadership at work and not let it come home with you?

12:09 Can you tell us about your personal leadership plan and team?

15:01 How much should you delegate a church’s mission and vision as a youth pastor?

17:55 How do you and your spouse do ministry together and still have a healthy relationship outside of church?

21:16 What requirements, if any, do you place on board members or elders to serve in that capacity?

24:19 Have you ever head of a fully contemporary church successfully adding an unplugged (acoustic) service?

26:03 Is there a way to not alienate unchurched people from your service?

30:37 What is the most important thing a youth worker can do to support the senior pastor?

32:22 What tools or system do you use to close the backdoor on first time guests? And how does that work across different ages and ministry?

36:09 What happens when two leaders collide in the same house?

37:10 How do you follow up with people who have been missing from church for a number of weeks?

38:38 What do you think about the missional community movement and how it will affect traditional church?

Links Mentioned

Preston Trail Community Church

Tony Morgan

Perry Noble

How to Break Growth Barriers: Capturing Overlooked Opportunities for Church Growth by Carl F. George and Warren Bird

Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No, to Take Control of Your Life by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend

Leadership Network

Mark Batterson

The Church Leaders Podcast

Necessary Endings: The Employees, Businesses, and Relationships that All of Us Have to Give Up in Oder to Move Forward by Henry Cloud

Andy Stanley Leadership Podcast; Delegation Dilemas Part 1 and 2

Jerry Gillis

Leading Change Without Losing It: Five Strategies That Can Revolutionize How You Lead Change When Facing Opposition


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