At some point this week, this month or this year, something good will come your way.  A promotion, an opportunity, an advancement, a raise, a new relationship, a new level of ‘success’.

What if every time something like that happened, you were to say to yourself: this is a trust.

Not “I deserved it”.  Not “I’ve always wanted this.”  Not “all that hard work finally paid off.”  Not “finally, I’m getting what’s coming to me.” Not even “wow this is cool” (okay, you can say that…just don’t stop there.)

What if instead, we just started saying “This is a trust.  I know he didn’t just give it to me for my benefit, he entrusted me with.  It’s a trust.”

What’s at stake is whether we believe that life and opportunities are about God, or whether we believe they are about us.  Our culture says they are about us.  But the scripture would say something different.

If you live like everything that comes your way is directed your way mainly for your benefit, you believe:

• This has come to me mostly for my benefit and the benefit of my family.
• I can use it any way I want.
• It doesn’t matter how I use it, because it’s mine.

If you view things as a trust, you believe:

• God likely didn’t give this to me solely for my benefit.
• I need to use it in the way that best honors God and others.
• It matters how I use it, because it’s not mine and I’m accountable.

I want to get into the habit of viewing all good things that come my way – every opportunity, reward, relationship, ability, advancement and gift – as a sacred trust.

How about you?  What do you believe about the good that comes your way?  How do you process it?  What helps you think this through?

Who do you admire?  I imagine that if you’re a preacher, you admire other preachers.  If you’re in kids ministry or student ministry, you’ve got a few leaders you follow. Graphic designers study and admire other graphic designers, musicians often follow other musicians. If you work in the marketplace, you admire other friends, colleagues or leaders in the field.

All of that is healthy.  To think there’s nothing to admire or learn from others is egotistical.

But sometimes admiring someone can lead you to want to be like them, or to be them, or – eek- even to be the next “them”.  Twitter, facebook, podcasts and this increasingly connected world make it so easy to watch someone else’s every move that I wonder whether some of us sometimes stop living our own lives and start living vicariously through others.

If you think that might be happening, here’s what to do: find a big red button and connect it to a loud buzzer and press repeatedly until you can’t stand it anymore and stop the behaviour.

Whenever I speak, write or lead, I feel the pressure to be better.  I listen to other speakers, watch other leaders and read other writers.  And once in a while I catch myself thinking “I wish I was __________” or “I wish I could be more like _________”.  This is when the stinkin’ loud buzzer should sound.  Right now.

Think about it…God will never hold you accountable for being someone he never created you to be.  He will not say “Carey, how come you weren’t more like Craig Groeschel or Andy Stanley?”  If God had wanted that, he would have made more Craig Groeschels and Andy Stanleys.   Good parents would never lay that pressure on their kids (“Hey, how come you’re not more like your friend Taylor?” – and those of you who had a parent who did that are wincing right now).  But sometimes we put that pressure on ourselves.

The only task before you (and me) is to take all the faith, talent, trust, ability and gifting God has given you and use it to be the best ‘you’ you can be.   God actually wants me to be more like Carey  - redeemed, forgiven and empowered Carey – but Carey still the same.  Ditto for you.

What will you be held accountable for?  Being ‘you’ in the context of the cross and tomb.  Nothing more. Nothing less.

So have the humility to learn from others, but then, go be you.  It’s the best gift you can give yourself, the best gift you can give God, and the best gift you can give the world.

My friend Chris Vacher has been spearheading an exciting project over the last year…a worship cd called Worship Rises.

It releases today on iTunes and I’d love for you to pick it up and, if you’re excited, tell your friends about it.  Chris is a great guy and awesome leader in the church.  He’s pulled together 32 worship pastors on this project (including Connexus’ own Andrew Walker)…the idea is to create music for the church by the church.

You can check out all the details on Chris’ blog.

I imagine you would expect in keeping with new blog disclosure policies that this is where I’m going to disclose that I was paid to blog about this.

Nope, I wasn’t.  I actually don’t have any personal stake in the project, although he did send me a few of the tracks from the EP for free last month. (But I don’t think that counts.)  I’m just telling you because I think Chris is a a great leader with a great idea.  Hope you enjoy it!